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I went to lunch with a colleague today. And the relationship topic came up. More specifically, we were talking about relationship between a man and a woman. We talked about how women stay in an unhappy relationship or prolong the relationship. I am talking about pre-marital relationship--not married relationship.
We, women, allow men to mistreat us. I am not saying we allow them to abuse us. We tend to stay in an unhappy relationship because we hope that things will change for the better. But honestly, men are simple creates. They either love you or don't. If you feel mistreated by men, he is simply not into you. So as harsh as it sounds, you should cut him off and move forward. Don't waste your time on men who mistreats you. He's not a bad guy. He's just not that into you. Don't let him disparage you. And don't believe the disparaging words he says about you. Why do you let someone make you feel bad when you became successful on your own. When guys love you, you can be at your worst and he will still love you.
I've read an article that says action speaks louder than words. When men love you, their actions really speak louder than words. Words are simply cheap. :-)
And ladies, do not be mad at men; they are the way they are. Please don't ask me why we are in the same planet. I have no idea.
To digress, the internet has opened up various venues for people to meet. And I found craigslist.org to be very out of my league. Internet is allowing people to be cathartic. All the cooped emotions get released in the internet. It's amusing.